Positive Psychology &Happiness

Using mind in pursuit of happiness & the good life

© Jerry Lopper

Positive psychology, a new field of research into the good life, well-being, and happiness, provides a wealth of useful information for personal development and growth.

The new and rapidly growing field of Positive Psychology is shedding light on what makes us happy, the pursuit of happiness, and how we can lead more fulfilling, satisfying lives. For many years, the field of psychology concentrated on mental illness. Since Martin Seligman's landmark book, Authentic Happiness, this new and exciting branch of psychology is focusing on the good life, happiness, and well-being--what it is and how we can pursue the good life with greater success.

Popular psychology literature, often termed pop-psychology, reflects advice and suggestions based largely on anecdotal evidence and the beliefs of the individual author.

In contrast, the science of positive psychology investigates potential concepts with thorough and statistically sound experiments. Investigation results are subject to peer review and stringent standards. Because of this, recommendations and findings of positive psychology researchers are more likely to be helpful and useable.

Many of the concepts and ideas of pop-psychology may turn out to be validated by research and concepts once dismissed may turn out to be of great value.

Though not a psychologist by training, I am deeply interested in the information coming out of positive psychology research as it applies to personal development. The information in my weekly Blog, Good Life Tips, is drawn from readings and coursework of positive psychology. Many of my articles are based on concepts I've learned from my positive psychology studies.

We all know that some people are naturally happier than others. You probably know someone who seems to be happy most of the time, who bounces back from set-backs quickly, and is often looking for the bright side of situations. Research is showing us that we can all do things that move our natural level of happiness farther up the happiness scale. Perhaps forty percent of our total happiness opportunity is within our control--forty percent gives us lots of room to grow toward greater and more consistent happiness.

For example, try the Good Things activity for one week. Each evening before bedtime, recall three good things that happened to you that day. These don't have to be earth-shattering or dramatic events. Simple gratifying events such as finishing a report that was due, completing a household chore or repair, finding a good book to read from your library, having a satisfying meal, or just being alive all qualify as good things.

For good measure, savor each event. Let it roll around in your mind for a time, "tasting" its goodness and allowing the good feeling to embrace you. Research indicates this activity correlates with greater feelings of happiness. I feel better after doing this and I predict you will too.

For more of these direct and easy-to-integrate tips, follow my weekly Blog postings titled Good Life Tips.

Related Articles:

Dan Gilbert, Stumbling on Happiness

Kindness = Mental/Physical Health

More related material under Positive Psychology Tips and Tools in the index.


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Comments
Jan 3, 2007 1:11 AM
mark jay buenaventura :
ahm, can you live for a week happy?
always consider that individuals are different.forsome, they can't live a happy lives because of some strees, anxiety, depressin and etc.think aboiut it.
Jan 3, 2007 8:37 AM
Judy M Merrill :
I live every week happy...for the most part. The fact is...negativity, fears, concerns, etc. do come into our thinking. We have the capacity to control those thoughts or allow them to control us.

When a thought occurs, be aware and present, then turn it around. In that way, there is always a manner to live happy. Flow with the spirit in all things.

God bless, J
Jan 3, 2007 8:55 AM
Jerry Lopper :
We all have negative events in our lives. Happiness is a frame of mind, a perspective on life and living that recognizes negative events but focuses primarily on the positives of life. Research shows that we can all be happier by practicing certain interventions of thinking and behaving.

It's worth a try.
Jan 11, 2007 8:26 AM
Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen :
I've read that some people are born with a happier disposition than others. Some are simply easy-going, happy, and cheerful as their normal state of mind, regardless of what's going on around them!

I love that. I think it can be learned, but it's sure nice when you're just naturally happy!

I wonder about hormones, especially in women. There's been times - every month in fact :) - that I'm just overwhelmed with frustration and restlessness, and it has nothing to do with being happy. I love my life, but just get AAARRGH sometimes.
Jan 12, 2007 3:54 AM
Jerry Lopper :
Some people are inherently happier than others, but it is possible for everyone to elevate their own state of happiness.

I can't relate to the monthly hormone jolt women experience, except as a husband, but it seems to me that monthly blues would also yield somewhat to interventions such as Three Good Things.

Might be worth a try.
Jan 12, 2007 8:38 AM
Judy M Merrill :
Someone way too cheery when the world is falling apart around them, is not very balanced either. In a practical manner, we have to face life with all it dishes up and keep in the happy zone as much as possible.

God bless, J
Jan 13, 2007 3:23 AM
Jerry Lopper :
I agree. There are times when I don't really want to be happy, at least not the cheery happy, but maybe the "OK, things aren't going great but I'm still alive and kicking" happy.

Does that make sense?
Jan 13, 2007 7:06 PM
Judy M Merrill :
That is called the peace balance. We all have a peace centre within...it is sometimes tough to maintain it...we can and do go one way or the other. We can have peace...we can choose peace. And the more we do, the more we spread it as a vibration for others to copy.:)

God bless, J
Jan 14, 2007 3:36 AM
Jerry Lopper :
I hadn't heard that term before, peace balance, at least not that I can remember. Can you tell me more about it?
Jan 14, 2007 7:01 AM
Judy M Merrill :
I do spiritual teaching through mediumship and Spiritualism. The peace centre is something that has come to me over the last while. Using the tools of our own consciousness (visualization, meditation, affirmation) we can balance and empower ourselves in our own good.

When we hear someone is out of whack with their world and we are seeking to find solutions...the key is balance. That has always been so.

If we have centre within ourselves (which we can and do emphasize in our lives) then we can 'choose' to remain at peace or we can choose to be out of peace. All is about balance.

Just my personal thoughts....

God bless,J
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